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The
"Generations" Thesis: What's a Church Supposed to Do?
By Pastor Neil Earle
Back in 1991 two
authors proposed a theory about recurring cycles of generations that seemed
to explain a lot about today? culture. William Strauss and Neil Howe? Generations book has been scrutinized and battered but it still can
serve as a ?hink piece for churches to understand at least some of the
challenges facing them.
In fact, Strauss
and Howe may have triggered a focus on passing generations. In the United
States Tom Brokaw heralded the ?reatest Generation and Leonard
Steinhorn responded in 2006 with The
Greater Generation, a salute to the Baby Boomers (1946-64) for
implementing progressive social changes from the fitness craze to a more
democratic workplace. Reginald Bibby, discussed in this issue, applies
Boomer psychology to Canadians but in a less positive vein than Steinhorn.
Typing Generations
Strauss and
Howe? remains the most comprehensive theory and can offer valuable
insights to churches and ministers dealing with more diverse congregations
than ever before. Most have heard by now of Gen. X (or ?hirteeners?,
the Boomers and the G.I. (or Greatest) generations. Simply insert a Silent
Generation between the WW2 veterans and the Boomers, add on today? young
up-and-comers (the Millennials) and you have the Strauss-Howe take on the
many broad trends in the culture.
Realizing that
all theories leak at the edges, let? try to move this scheme north of the
49th parallel. The purpose of this exercise is this: To help
Christians grasp how complex our world has become, the world we are trying
to reach with the Gospel. The Generations approach may spur us to more
readily meet the challenge inherent in the apostle Paul? mantra ?ll
things to all men (1 Corinthians 9:22).
In Canada, a
?enerations theory might end up looking something like this:
The
Veterans (born 1901-1902). They?e the proud, poppy-wearing,
ramrod-straight Canadian Legion members you see on parade every Remembrance
Day. No doubt of their cultural allegiances. Their leading spirits stormed
the beaches of Normandy on D-Day, June 6, 1944, and liberated Holland. This
makes them the most identifiable of the generations. They are the ultimate
?an do types. No wonder two of their cohort (one a Canadian from
Toronto) invented the comic hero Superman.
This generation
defied a Depression and fought a world war. They don? let you forget it
either and it? good to hear their stories. They were the WACs, the WAVES
and the WRENS (ask them to explain) who came home, bought affordable houses,
raised 2.5 kids and paid the taxes to pivot NATO, help rebuild Western
Europe and stare down Communism. They also knew how to relax?hey helped
start CBC-TV and Radio-Canada in 1952 with such war-trained comedians as Wayne and Shuster tickling the nation? funny
bones (? told him, Julie don? go!?. Tommy Douglas and Judy LaMarsh
helped pivot the welfare state. Oh yes, these were builders, heroes,
achievers, par excellence and
their values still resonate with us today.
The
Adaptives (born 1925-1942). Living in the shadow of heroes, this
generation grew up valuing competence, community, institutions. Calm,
thorough, logical, this cohort surfaces in William Shatner from Montreal who
saw his glory days as steady but tough Captain James Kirk of the Starship
Enterprise, or Anne Murray who has never forgotten her roots in Springhill,
Nova Scotia. This group loves dialogue--think of Pierre Berton and Charles
Templeton, two provocative intellectuals. They don? get much ?afer
than Lloyd Robertson and Knowlton Nash of national news-casting fame or
Madame Jeanne Suave, first female Speaker of the House of Commons and first
female Governor General. Then there? Rene Levesque, another institution
builder, in his way. This generation has clearly left a mark.
Baby
Boomers (born 1943-1960). Question: ?hat are you rebelling
against? Answer: ?hat have you got? This movie quote sums up a lot
of the tumultuous generation that grew up quietly watching Timber Tom on
Howdy Dowdy or listening to heartthrob Paul Anka croon ?iana before
they exploded across the campuses in the 1960?. Often set at years 1946
to 1964, the Boomers are nevertheless identified by their questioning of
received traditions. In this they exasperate their Veteran parents and
bewilder their Adaptive older siblings. Think of Yorkville coffee houses,
the Beatles at Maple Leaf Gardens, Rex Murphy? intellectual rants, and
Margaret Trudeau and you?e got the picture. I know them well. They?e
my generation, perhaps the most privileged and most questioning cohort yet
raised.
However, the
Boomer penchant for dissent and raising a little Cain is often a way of
getting things done. Boomers like to champion causes and rebels and have
left perhaps the most indelible mark on the culture. Women? rights, the
environment, safety belts, flex time at work, racial equality, a decent
wage?hese are all causes Boomers have advanced that were conspicuously
missing in the good, grey 1950?.
Reactive
or Gen X (1961-1981). A most interesting tribe. This is the age group
that remembers the energy crisis, an age of limits (the 1970?), a
population bust and a not-so-subtle anti-child culture. Result? These are
the born survivors. They helped make ?taying Alive the hit of 1979.
Like icons Terry Fox and Steve Fonyo they learned to heroically go it alone
while in their twenties. This is a cohort used to life ?n the edge as
in Rick Mercer and his often anti-Boomer humor. The young and healthy
Michael J. Fox was emblematic of this era in both Canada and the United
States. Frenetic, fast-moving?hey were a ?arty-hearty crowd willing
to push the envelope and live by one? wits. Nike? ?ust do It was
a mantra and ?o for it expressed their in-your-face, eye-of-the-tiger
realism. Meanwhile high rates of community voluntarism and concern for often
overlooked younger children is just part of their saving graces. Unlike
Boomers, they don? need the limelight. Take Wendy Kopps, who started a
Teacher? Corps for young graduates to work a year in underprivileged
schools. Unlike Adaptives, they shun peer approval before forging ahead on
their own, youthful problem-solvers.
The
Millennials (1982 to now). Nice kids, most of them. Called ?he
millennials because they will come to responsibility in the 21st
century, these are the young up-and-comers raised by the cocooning parents
of the 1980?, couples who preferred staying at home to winning corporate
success, much like Diane Keaton in the movie ?aby Boom. A smoke-free
environment, Neighborhood Watch, soccer classes, a Children? Summit at
the UN, stepped up activism against drugs and violence?hese kids have
been the recipients of these efforts. Strauss and Howe think the cycle will
start all over with these, our young people, hoping they will become the new
group of Heroes, like their great-grandparents.
Just maybe. As a
part-time College instructor, I find today? youth do have a remarkable
capacity for ?penness, for hearing both sides of a story. They are
almost vociferously non-political but are attentive to true stories of
people who made a difference. ?ake a difference is almost their
mantra. They chase expensive toys but are willing to knock themselves out to
work at getting them. The number who consider law enforcement as a career is
noticeable. They are growing up with some in-built advantages as bosses and
corporations are now beginning to seek them out in the face of dropping
birth rates in Canada. There? nothing like feeling needed to make you
less snarly and competitive. We?e rooting for you, millennials (How?
that for a pompous Boomer attitude?).
The Church Challenge
The Worldwide
Church of God here in America is trying to mentor and nurture the
millennials with our ?enerations ministry. In Canada, the success of
our well-run summer camps is a noticeable bright spot boding well for the
future. Not as questioning as the Boomers or as automatically reactive as
Gen X, these young people are not our future, they are here now.
But think of the
challenge it is for churches to reach audiences composed of five different
generations. What? a church--what? a church pastor-- supposed to do?
In church
congregations of four or five thousand the answer would be easier: simply
tailor programs for each age group? interest. Most of us however aren?
dealing with those numbers, which means it? harder to find the trained
and savvy staff to reach them all. What to do?
First, each age
group has to remember a line I hear a lot around our fellowship lately:
?t? not about me! Sounds simple but it reminds today? Christians
of all ages and generations that none of us can afford to stay locked in
place. Change is nature? law. The Christian faith is ours to share, not
to keep to ourselves. Jesus famously said, ? city on a hill cannot be
hidden?ou are the salt of the earth?ou are the light of the world.
Salt spreads, is meant to permeate. Light is for others. The Gospel calls us
all out of our comfort zones to learn how to relate to others.
Why?
In order that we
might influence their coming to Christ, of course. Jesus
famously said: ?or the Son of man came to seek and to save that which was
lost (Luke 19:10). Never did he discriminate. Never did he condemn
(except uptight religious leaders). Nor should we. Trouble is it is so very
easy for us to judge by the outward appearance. It? so easy for those in
the Veteran or Adaptive generations to misjudge today? young people. That
earring in the ear, that iPod dangling in the jacket, the torn jeans, the
scruffy hair, or the skinhead look?hese are things that can set up
negative reactions in those who think June Cleaver? 1950? dress code
was God? ultimate standard.
Outward Appearances
Oh, yes. It?
so easy to reject people based on the outward appearance and we all do it.
Yet that is exactly what Jesus told us not to do. ?top judging by mere appearances, but instead judge
correctly (John 9:24).?/p>
A pastor friend
tells the story of his going back to university in 1989 in a large Canadian
city to finish his degree. He had heard the inbuilt prejudices expressed
against young men wearing earrings. ?urely, he used to hear around his
church, ?his is the ultimate rejection of masculinity. He soon saw
that the biggest, bulkiest hockey players in his class were all wearing
earrings. The concept seeped in: ?ey, this is just a matter of style.?/p>
Many of us Baby
Boom ministers to the Gen X world in the 1970? can remember the battles
over long hair in that funky decade. Or music. Or dress. Sigh?e live and
learn. Now look! Twenty years later the style has completely changed around.
Now bald is in! How silly to get stressed out about matters of personal
style.
That? why
clinging to 1950? standards of dress honed in a more settled era can be
such a barrier to accepting the much more casual approach of Gen X or
Millennials. ?hat? Child care at church? Why back in my day kids were
taught to sit still. These may have been great values but the reality is
so different today. And above all things the church must learn to face
reality.
?toop to Conquer?o:p>
It works the
other way too. Boomers and Xers cannot really expect the Lawrence Welk
generation to adore everything
represented by Contemporary Christian Music. Certain in-built prejudices are
just ingrained and may never disappear. But then again, rose bushes have
thorns. Reform-minded Boomers caught in the middle have to realize that
sometimes it is good to ?toop to conquer.?span style="mso-spacerun: yes">
This takes us
back again to the fact that church isn? really about us. ?astoring,
said one veteran minister, ?s often like driving a van load of seniors.
You?e got to take the curves very slowly.?/p>
The Generations
Thesis, then, can serve as a call for tolerance. How challenging it is to
have everyone happy in church. Boomers who believe in ?aving it your
way and Adaptives who cherish decorum have to respect each others points
of view or those coming along behind them will soon go home as the debate
rages.
Teachers know
this: There are always new generations coming along for whom traditions may
not mean much. It was a wise church leader who said: ?he last eight words
of the church may well be: This is the
way we?e always done things.? After all, this is the first time
in history when children now know more about the practical application of
technology than their elders. Does the word Power Point ring a bell? The
profound changes we see about us signal one of the most tumultuous upheavals
in human history. There are now four or five age groups inside each
congregation who are experiencing Future Shock differently. Can the church
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